In a community such as the one I'm a part of people talk a whole lot of talk, but can't manage to walk ANY of the walk. Every chance they get they're running home, and saying how "hard" things are for them.. When in reality they've got it made! I can't stand how people do nothing in life but dwell on the bad and the unfortunate, I wish more people would say "Yes, this sucks.. BUTTTTTTT I've got A, B, and C going for me!" No, instead they've got to be depressed, mad, angry at the world, and just plain old annoying about how "bad" their life is. THEN, being a nice person.. trying to cheer them up.. a friend will say something such as "Yeah.. that does suck and I'm sorry you're dealing with that.. but don't forget about A, B, and C" and next thing you know the nice/good friend is torn down by them repeating how "awful" their life is!
In the end it's really just a sad and pathetic kinda way to live, the lives we life are dictated by that which we make of them. If people are going to sit back and say how much their life sucks when it really DOESN'T then that's their problem. I've made it so far in my adventures as a wife and mother because when people sit there and make themselves look like they've got this horrible and awful life I look at them and say two words: "PEACE OUT!" I don't need them, their drama, their depression, or their issues weighing down on my life and my happiness!
If you're going to live a "different" lifestyle from the "norm" then plan to have a tough time!! Also, if you're going to "talk the talk" be sure you can HANDLE walking the walk, because if you can't you're going to be MISERABLE!!
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